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An American came to stay – and completely changed my attitude to water | Emma Beddington

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I hate water so much I once went on the radio to defend my stance. Then I was introduced to massive bags of ice …

My son brought his girlfriend home last month and we really wanted to make things nice for her. We started with a shame-fuelled whirlwind clean, but were instantly betrayed the second our son stepped inside and exclaimed: “It’s so tidy! I’ve never seen it this clean!” (It got worse when he showed her my office, the portrait in the attic to the rest of the house’s Dorian Gray.)

She is from the US, which added an extra set of anxieties about how we live, specifically around ice and water. I have watched enough TikTok videos of shocked, disgusted Americans complaining about European hospitality’s inadequate water service and ice meanness to know that we are notoriously bad at providing sufficient, and sufficiently chilled, hydration for US visitors. Keen to do better, we scrambled to the supermarket to panic-buy bags of ice to fill the freezer, then affected a casual, offhand familiarity with this cold, watery way of life. Would you like iced water? Yes, we’re always offering each other giant glasses of cold fluid brimming with ice cubes, extremely normal behaviour here!

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Barratt pushes ahead with takeover of Redrow despite watchdog’s concerns

UK’s largest housebuilder will waive conditions put on £2.5bn deal, set to be completed this week, from CMA

The housebuilder Barratt is pushing ahead with its £2.5bn takeover of rival Redrow this week despite concerns raised by the government’s competition watchdog.

Barratt said on Monday that it would waive conditions put on the deal – due to be completed this week – from the Competition and Markets Authority (CMA) after it found that the merger could disadvantage homebuyers in the area around a town in Shropshire.

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Bombed hospitals, buried children: we have become numb to Gaza’s destruction | Hala Alyan

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As we are saturated with horror, it gets normalized – and Israel’s assault continues unfettered. A Palestinian poet on dehumanization

Back in May, when the image of a decapitated child in Rafah started circulating, my friend texted: This is the image. This is the one. Now the world’s going to roar. For many of us, this has been the reality of the last months: waiting for the image that will shake complacency and complicity; waiting for the image so staggering it’ll be non-negotiable. An amputated toddler. A blown-apart body. A girl hanging from the side of a building. We are still waiting.

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What I learned about loss and joy from Joan Didion, my mentor 60 years my senior | Cory Leadbeater

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In Manhattan, I was in her orbit for nine years – quietly, she passed on a lifetime’s wisdom about grief, fear and hope

The clarity of hindsight is often overstated, particularly when it concerns the relationships that transform us. The English teacher who taught us King Lear somehow becomes the sole reason that we write; our first big love opened us to the world; our childhood barber is the reason we smoke. But at times in our lucky lives, it is possible to know what you have while you have it. I learned this from someone who’d spent a lifetime trying to accurately perceive what was in front of her.

For nine years, I worked as a personal assistant to the titanic Joan Didion. Joan was in her 80s, I in my early 20s, and for a good chunk of the time I worked for her, I lived with Joan in her apartment on the Upper East Side in Manhattan. We were, to outsiders, an odd pair: Joan, tremendously frail in her small, birdlike body, quiet, exacting; I, on the other hand, tall, excitable, eager to prove my worth, still in the process of self-discovery. Day by day, we sat together and read poems and the newspaper, listened to music, smoked. Day by day, she was teaching me how to sit still, to be watchful, to be present. When you are friends with someone 60 years your senior, you learn quickly that this moment – this exact moment – might be your last together.

Cory Leadbeater is the author of The Uptown Local: Joy, Death and Joan Didion

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The end of menopause: would women be healthier and happier if they menstruated for ever?

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The ovaries affect everything from metabolism to mood – so some scientists are on a quest to slow their ageing process

Judy Blume’s novel about early female puberty, Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret, depicts a group of 12-year-old girls eagerly willing their first periods to arrive, impatient to be in on the unfathomable mystery of monthly bleeds. Little do they know that the mysteries surrounding their ovaries and wombs will only ever deepen, in ways unique to each of them. The mood swings, the cramps, the headaches, the pimples, the energy dips, the secretions, the libidinous peaks and troughs – right up to the perimenopause. Doctors won’t be much help, because there is scant precise science on much of this.

And then, at about 50, when the ovaries have run out of eggs, it all goes quiet. I have heard middle-aged women express profound relief at reaching this moment. But what if the ovaries didn’t go quiet for another decade, or ever? Making this happen is being hailed as the next frontier in women’s health: to delay or avoid menopause and, in doing so, curtail the increased health risks associated with it.

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Energy bills could rise to average of £1,714 a year in Great Britain from October

Cornwall Insight analysts predict quarterly price cap through to end of December will increase by 9%

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Energy bills across Great Britain could rise by 9% from October to an average of £1,714 a year for the typical household’s gas and electricity, according to forecasts.

Analysts at Cornwall Insight, a well-respected energy consultancy, have forecast that the government’s energy price cap will rise for the average dual-fuel energy bill, up from its current level of £1,568.

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These ceasefire talks have been doomed to fail – Netanyahu and Hamas have tied negotiators’ hands | Gershon Baskin

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Neither side will tolerate the necessary concessions until the US, Egypt and Qatar exert their considerable influence

Another round of ceasefire and hostage talks, this time in Doha, has ended in disappointment. This is in large part because Israel’s prime minister, Benjamin Netanyahu, is unlikely to accept any agreement that Hamas could present as a victory – and has handcuffed the Israeli mediators with conditions that appear impossible for Hamas to accept.

Beyond the substance of any potential agreement between the two sides is the emotional juice of so much of the Israeli-Palestinian relationship: the battle for national dignity and honour. Huge quantities of explosives have been dropped on Gaza by Israel since 7 October because of the humiliation felt by all Israelis, and especially Israel’s leaders and military. So much of this war over more than 10 months has been fought on both sides as a war of revenge. Nonetheless, it also has major strategic consequences for Israel, Hamas, the Palestinian people, the nations of the region, and the world’s major powers – above all the United States.

Gershon Baskin is a former hostage negotiator and the Middle East director for International Communities Organisation, a UK-based NGO

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Can you dye dark hair a bright colour without bleach?

Got a beauty dilemma? Our expert is here to offer advice. This week, Toni wants some tips on dyeing

To permanently lighten or add a bright colour to dark locks, you need to bleach the hair first so it’s light enough to take the colour. In the past this has been a harsh and damaging process. “Colour, technically, has really improved, so adding golden tones to dark hair is no longer an abrasive process,” says celebrity colourist Josh Wood. But doing it repeatedly can damage hair over time and make it more brittle – as I know well.

But these are great ways of playing with colour before going all-in on the bleach. Josh has a range of hair glosses, which are semi-permanent conditioning colour treatments you can use in the shower. “You can add chocolate, chestnut or red tones to dark hair that will compliment the natural depth of the hair without bleaching or lightening it,” he says.

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Biden to give possible swan song at Democratic convention amid Gaza protests

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President set to receive electrifying welcome but thousands also expected to protest in Chicago over Israel military aid

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Joe Biden will take centre stage for perhaps the last time on Monday night when he addresses the Democratic national convention in Chicago – as the US president faces a backlash over one of his most complex legacies.

Tens of thousands of protesters are expected to converge in the host city to demand that the US end military aid to Israel for its ongoing war in Gaza. Activists have branded Biden “Genocide Joe” and called for the vice-president, Kamala Harris, to change course.

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My Barcelona is being destroyed by mass tourism – but kicking visitors out isn’t the answer | Xavier Mas de Xaxàs

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From petty crime to a housing crisis, our city is suffering. Backlash is justified, but sustainable tourism is part of our future

My city has been stolen from me and I’m not getting it back. In Barcelona, we are overwhelmed by mass tourism and there is no solution in sight. Our vulnerability as citizens is mirrored by the experience of people who live in other European tourist hotspots: Rome, Florence, Venice, Amsterdam, Paris or Prague, where measures to curb tourism’s toxicity have been put in place with varying degrees of success.

In Barcelona, it is clear that efforts such as noise restrictions and one-way systems in popular areas are not working, and this is why a grassroots backlash is taking hold. The city has about 32 million visitors annually.

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